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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

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How do you manage when two of your closest friends can't stand each other???

Does it tear you apart to see two people you love so pretending the other doesn't exist or do you try to help them make up? Do you try to let them fight their own battles or do you want to bang ther heads together to remind them that once upon a time they were good friends... that the quirks that made them enemies they used to like about each other?

How do you explain it when the animosity still lives years later? Can you still summon the same amount of anger that you felt back then when you had fought with someone?

Do you forgive and forget or do memories of anger still eat you up inside? How do you handle the pain of a friend when they know they still want to be friends with someone and it is their ego which keeps them from trying to meet the other half way?

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posted by Tejaswini Shenoy at 12:11 AM

1 Comments:

you definitely would help them to get back!..

my 2 cents..
If all of you are very close friends, a good way to get them back together is to ask them to write an essay about the good qualities of the other. You read out the letters to them in the presence of the other!

And then, a miracle happens!!!

September 15, 2009 at 4:17 PM  

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